A letter to a child

Children, when you see this letter, dad sincerely wishes you a healthy life! Happy! I also hope you become stronger and more confident.     Dad’s childhood was full of dramatic humor, which led to a shadow that he couldn’t swing on the way to life, and he had extreme ideas about some things, especially the university dream of not having a full grandfather, which became a regret in this life.. Perhaps in order not to let you repeat the same mistakes, I have been very strict with you since I was a child. When other children were riding a rocking car, I let you ride your own bike. While other children are playing with toys, I let you do it yourself … ah, all this is to make you grow up faster and understand more clearly.     Your grandparents doted on you so much that they took you as their heart’s flesh. The hens in the family will send you their eggs, but I can’t agree with their way of education. For example, if you have a prejudice against that family or person, you will be told to avoid it, and over time it will also have a negative impact on your psychology, especially when you meet strangers, you are hiding behind adults. And your mother, I don’t know whether she is drifting with the tide or looking forward to the women’s heart. Anyhow, other people have interest classes and she wants to try them all again. At that time, you were still young and all her wishes were according to the arrangement of her parents. She always thought you would be happy if she took you on a trip and bought you clothes.. We have great differences on these issues and often quarrel with each other. She always thinks I am stingy and reluctant to spend money.. I think only real life, simple education will let children know what love is and what is true.     Every country and every family has different educational concepts, but our country’s educational concept is’ Young people don’t work hard, old people grieve’, which instills Guang Zong’s Yao Zu’s idea from the birth of the child, but it doesn’t know that’ upright people are virtuous first, and educate people to nurture their hearts first’. Since kindergarten, I have paid a lot of money to enroll my children in interest classes. I have arranged a full schedule from Monday to the weekend. I am worried even in primary schools, junior high schools and senior high schools. Besides attending classes, I have also invited tutors for fear that the children will slow down. Do you consider the children’s feelings as parents?? Where was the child’s childhood?     I remember a child in my hometown who was able to take part in 300 bills of Tang poetry at the age of six or seven. every exam in primary school was among the best. in the eyes of his family, he was hope. in the eyes of others, he was a’ child prodigy’. but in junior high school, the child was too proud to think that there was nothing rare for him. not only did he learn to skip classes, but he also got online games, and the result was out of control..     My idea is very simple. Don’t put pressure on the children. When you change to play, play happily. When you change to study, study quietly and make sure that there is a clear movement.. Children, do you remember? In order to cultivate your interest, Dad specially wrote some calligraphy in the garage, teaching you to recognize and read from’ 123, dot – and – dash, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose, goose and goose. In order to exercise your state of mind, I often take you to a quiet place, feel the beauty and harmony of nature, and know something new by the way. I’m tired of walking. I lied to you that there is a beverage store in front of you. Not only did you insist on walking down, you also learned to’ hope for plum blossom to quench thirst’; When you eat, you spread a table of rice. In order to better educate you, I will show you the movie ” Jiao Yulu”. From then on, you cherish every grain and learn ” every grain is hard.”.     Finally, Dad has to tell you, ” People are afraid of failure, and they are afraid of not trying to fail.”. People will inevitably experience ups and downs in their life. They should know how to look for light in the dark, find pleasure in pain and sum up experience in failure.. Good man, always have a safe life.